Roommate Agreements: What to Put in Writing
Your roommate is your best friend. You'd never need a written agreement. Until you do — because they stopped paying their share of utilities, their partner is basically living there rent-free, or they're moving out three months early and sticking you with the full rent. A roommate agreement takes 30 minutes to write and can save you thousands of dollars and a friendship.
Rent and Utility Splits
Put the exact dollar amount each person pays, to whom, and by what date. If one bedroom is bigger, the rent split doesn't have to be equal — agree on the split before move-in. For utilities, decide: split equally, split by usage, or one person pays and gets reimbursed? Write down which utilities each person's name is on. When someone's name is on the account, they're liable for the full bill regardless of the agreement.
Guests, Partners, and Overnight Visitors
This is the number one source of roommate conflict. Set ground rules: How many nights per week can a guest stay before they should contribute to rent/utilities? Is there a quiet hours policy? Can guests use shared spaces freely? A common rule: any guest staying more than 3-4 nights per week for more than two weeks should start contributing to utilities. Get specific — vague agreements lead to vague arguments.
Cleaning, Chores, and Shared Spaces
Create a basic cleaning rotation or agreement. Who cleans the bathroom? How often? What's the standard? Are dishes allowed in the sink overnight? These feel petty to write down until you're living with someone who has a very different definition of "clean." Even a simple weekly rotation chart prevents 90% of cleaning-related conflicts. Include shared supplies: who buys toilet paper, dish soap, and trash bags?
What Happens When Someone Moves Out Early
This is the clause everyone skips and then regrets. Specify: How much notice must a departing roommate give (30-60 days is standard)? Is the departing roommate responsible for finding a replacement? What happens to the security deposit? On a joint lease, the remaining roommates are liable for the full rent regardless of who leaves. The agreement should require the departing roommate to keep paying their share until a replacement is found or the notice period ends.
●Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Is a roommate agreement legally enforceable?
Yes, in most cases. A written, signed roommate agreement is a contract. While small-dollar disputes might not be worth suing over, having the agreement in writing strengthens your position in any disagreement, including small claims court. It's also evidence if the landlord gets involved in a dispute.
What if my roommate breaks the agreement?
Start with a conversation referencing the written agreement. If that doesn't work, you have a written document to bring to mediation or small claims court. Many colleges offer free mediation services for roommate disputes. If the issue is serious (non-payment of rent), you may need to involve the landlord.
Should the landlord be involved in the roommate agreement?
The roommate agreement is between you and your roommate, not with the landlord. The lease is your agreement with the landlord. They're separate documents. However, your roommate agreement can't override the lease — if the lease prohibits subletting, your roommate agreement can't authorize it.
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